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The Etiquette of Tipping Your Escort: Do’s and Don’ts

September 29, 2025

For first-time clients, tipping can feel like a grey area. Escorts have set rates, but gratuities still play a role in showing appreciation. Here’s how to approach it with class.

Lola in blue lingerie reclining on a sofa during a Luxe Escorts photoshoot in Brisbane
Lola – Luxe Escorts’ petite blonde vixen in Brisbane.

Are tips expected?

At Luxe Escorts, tips are never required. Our rates are fixed and transparent, covering the full experience you book. However, if you feel your escort went above and beyond—whether through connection, energy, or flexibility—a small tip can be a thoughtful gesture. It’s about appreciation, not obligation.

How much is appropriate?

There’s no set formula, but a simple guideline is 10–20% of the booking fee. For a $1000 session, that might be $100–$200. The key is balance: enough to show gratitude without making the moment transactional. For longer dates, such as overnights, a token amount or a thoughtful gift can feel more natural than a large cash tip.

When and how to give it

Discretion is important. Hand over the agreed booking fee first, then offer the tip separately at the end of the booking. Place it in an envelope or folded note, and keep it low-key. Avoid making comments like “Here’s extra for this” tied to specific acts—it can feel crude and transactional. Instead, keep it simple: “I really enjoyed myself, this is just a thank you.”

Alternatives to cash tips

If you prefer not to hand over extra cash, small gifts can be just as meaningful. The best options are thoughtful, not extravagant:

  • A quality bottle of wine or champagne
  • Luxury chocolates or gourmet treats
  • Perfume or skincare, if you know her taste
  • A discreet gift card to a favourite store

The gesture should feel light and genuine, never excessive. What matters is the thought, not the price tag.

When not to tip

Never use a tip to negotiate extras that weren’t agreed in advance. Tipping should always follow enjoyment, not act as a bargaining tool. Similarly, don’t tip as an apology for breaking etiquette, such as showing up late or pushing boundaries. Respect and clear communication matter more than money.

Classy booking starts here

At Luxe Escorts, your booking already guarantees a premium experience. Tipping is optional, but when done right it can leave a strong impression and build chemistry for future dates. Browse our models, explore our services, or contact us to plan your next booking.

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